Supporting Siblings of Children in ABA Therapy

When one child in your family is receiving ABA therapy, supporting siblings in ABA therapy is just as important. Brothers and sisters may feel left out, confused, or even jealous. They might wonder why their sibling gets more attention, what therapy is, or why playtime has changed.

These feelings are completely natural. Offering support to siblings not only helps them feel understood but also strengthens family connections and overall well-being.

1. Explain ABA to Support Siblings in ABA Therapy

Explain ABA in terms your children can understand. For example, you might say:
“Your sibling is learning in a special way to help them grow and reach their goals.”

Being open to questions reduces confusion and prevents siblings from making their own assumptions about therapy or attention.

2. Validate Feelings of Siblings in ABA Therapy

Siblings may feel left out, jealous, or frustrated. Acknowledge these emotions and let them it is ok to feel that way. Simply listening and showing empathy can make a huge difference.

3. Involve Siblings in ABA Therapy When Appropriate

Many siblings benefit from being included in therapy sessions or activities. Ask your child’s BCBA (Board Certified Behavior Analyst) how siblings can participate safely and meaningfully. This involvement can create positive shared experiences and foster understanding.

4. Create Sibling-Only Time to Support ABA Families

ABA therapy can be time-intensive. Try carving out even a few minutes a day for one-on-one time with siblings. Regular special moments—like reading a story, playing a game, or simply talking—help siblings feel valued and connected.

Siblings of children receiving ABA therapy are on their own unique journey. As parents, one of the greatest gifts you can give is balancing attention and care between the child in therapy and their siblings. Supporting siblings in understanding ABA fosters empathy, strengthens relationships, and contributes to a more harmonious family life.